10 years

About me. 32 year old
Mother of 2, real estate agent
Married for Ten years to a Muslim.When my husband and I were 1st married he was 20 I was 21 years old with my 1st child whom was only 1 month at time.We had little money both living with, him is his mother me my grandmother we moved into a hotel stayed there for 1 month until his cousin offered us a house. We moved into the house payed the mortgage and taxes for 4 years until i suggested that we sold that home and buy a new house in a better neighborhood.So we sold the house but his mother took the money which i thought would be used for us buying a new home and she kept if for her in her husband.I felt betrayed my husband didn't say anything nor do anything so we separated .I moved into a small duplex him into a friends rundown home.during our separation i met up w/a old boyfriend we became close .Although my husband cheated on me during our entire marriage he wasn't happy about my old friend coming back into my life.He would come to my home every night begging me to let him have his family back.So 4 months later i said OK we can get back together He moved in with me and he decided he wanted to be a rapper so every night he would go into the studio and rap. all his money and time went on his rapping career leaving me to pay the bills and other household duties.I decided him and i should move into a house being that my ex knew where we lived i felt very uncomfortable so i went out and found this beautiful home in the hills with this great landlord .We moved into the home i suggested to him he should get his real estate licence he was kind of iffy cause he had dreams on becoming a big rapper. He got his license although he was not active in real estate finally we were happy I became pregnant he expressed to me how his mother helped ruined his credit when he was a teen so i helped fix his credit I had the baby I now wanted us to have our own home now we were older and we had two children living w/us so I ask lets buy another house this time his mom had no involvements he said OK so we found an agent this agent helped him find a duplex so he bought the duplex i didn't move into this duplex but i found him some tenants.So finally we found a home that i was in love with we bought the home we shared the mortgage payment.So he is now active in real estate he got listings i advertised the listings We have money and now we have our own home we started traveling and having fun So now his friendsand family is coming around more He decided to buy investments in Memphis leaving me w/the children home alone he would come back from Memphis but spend all his time at work.So while i had all that free time i studied and became a real estate agent and notary.He wasn't to happy about that. he got his broker license i thought we would work together me as the agent him the broker he asked me to find a office i did a really nice inexpensive office so he got the office moved into it .Now he is telling me we our losing our home the 2ND mortgage was too much for us to handle i am going to have to move into a rental i am devastate so we moved out he left all his stuff in the old home so i am now in the new home he calls me and tells me he had something for me I go to him he bought me flowers so i leave the office he tells me i see you later tonight i said ok its getting later and later i call him and ask him our you coming home he tells me no and he has a 2ND wife he bought her a car he found them an apartment . she is 31 years old disabled woman he met at a liquor store she new all about me and my children .So now he pays all of her bills i pay all my and my children bills.